C-Relationship

It is all about YOUR Mind Mastering Existential Love Coding Human Systems, above all your self...

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EL-Coded Relationship of Partner 1+2

Please prepare yourself with this site for using the Goggle Sheet App to get the E H/L-codes for the relationship you want to improve. Preferably first answer the questions on paper/your Excel file before you use the app, so other users do not have to queue up. It's easier on a computer than on the mobile if that is feasible. Before you can use the app you need to have the Google app for sheets installed . Please make sure you have a Google Drive account on your PC/the spread sheet app on the mobile. Then obtain my permission to access the "C-Relationship" app for a 30 minute live-work- relationship strategy session. Set your screen to just see one frame at the time, beginning with this on.

- Clicking the cells fixes the
  adjacent note.
- Clicking another cell makes the
  note disappear.

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To the left you see the app with the top cell clicked. Having thoroughly studied all notes below, you are ready to focus on partner 1+2 in their relationship. Listen to your conscience after having understood the questions; do not judge your first impulse; there is no right or wrong answer, just a honest response to get the E H/L Codes of the respective attitude to the relationship relevant for both partners.
These are the notes^ in the app:

 ?  Help: Here you can interact with the app owner with questions, suggestions and by sharing your experience by filling in the form and then implementing it in the relationship. Make your insights and the E H/L Codes reproducible within 2 DAYS, then make decisions about improving the relationship and how you are going to share it with your partner within 2 WEEKS, then be prepared to  explain yourself for at least 2 MONTHS until the desired attitude of both of you, becomes a matter of course...
 

- You may leave a relevant "Reply"
  below; the owner will process it,
- please no comments and no notes
  in any other fields

- leave the "Resolve" button above
  alone, and
- no copy-paste in filling out the   
  form.
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Code: Please consider you and other users you might encounter above the app as a ELC-dedicated community which go along with these instructions. Misusing them can lead to cancel the access; please report any violation to the owner (Email: pm//think-systems.ch). Feel free to substantially exchange your experience among each other - but no spam and social media nonsense please. The owner reserves the right to delete what does not serve the purpose of this app.

This app can only be used by one person at the time:
- check who is logged on above
- when this field is "free", enter
  "occupied" so the app is
  reserved for you
- when you have filled in all input
  fields, enter "code" then,
- write the E H/L Codes (below)
  down and make a screenshot
- you may delete the birthdates
 
so the next user has no info
  about you
.
- when you finish, enter
  "free" for the next user and
  exit the app.
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Partner 1: Real human systems (individuals, their relationships, teams and collective cultures) have a to be identified as their X-substance with their innate relationship truths that need to be understood beyond generalizing words in terms of parameterizing relevant open-ended generative principles!
 

Usually YOU in your current
situation

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Partner 2: You may also enter yourself again, but in the desired state. And you can also use a cultural mentality say USA with the special code "19-Jul-2115" instead of a birth date, China (17-Sep-2050), Australia (13-Feb-2088), England (04-Aug-2080), Switzerland (12-Sep-2116), Germany (03-Mar-2062), Russia (11-Mar-2031), France (17-May-2084), Italy (07-Jan-2183); you can do that also for Partner 1 instead of a real person to compare two cultures as you see them. You may ask for the relevant codes of other cultures relevant to you.
 

Your partner as you see him or her; make your best guess. Once you have entered all parameters, make a screenshot and relevant notices.
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Priority: Colors convey a reasonably generalized relevant meaning by association with the natural color in nature. In John 1:26: “I baptize with water”, John the Baptist replied when the Jewish leaders in Jerusalem sent priests and Levites to ask him who he was. He did not fail to confess, but confessed freely, “I am not the Messiah.”, “but among you stands one you do not know. 27 "He is the one who comes after me, the straps of whose sandals I am not worthy to untie.” It is all about coding human systems according to who they truly are rather than to please leaders up to the zeitgeist they adhere to...
 

Imagine the color selection vividly in terms of a relevant object, e.g. yellow -> sun. The following choice opens you up to tune into the potential of the relationship:
Your partner as you see him/her; make your best guess.
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Color 1: This is about the color that fits your current state and what normally works and how in your mind  - e.g. like in spring when the farmer is usually sowing in the hope of the usual return on investment - he can think of the brown/black soil, the blue sky he hopes will rain enough, the red blood his heart needs to pump an so on...

Relevant to "business as usual" in the relationship (just enter the first letter as marked)
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Color 2: This is about how to get a step closer to the desired state by making things faster, stronger, more efficient  - with the promising better results...

Relevant when the relationship improves
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Color 3: This is about insights into the ideal, trustworthy system which allows the synergy to deal with life in a fulfilling flow state...

Relevant when you are both content, happy, fulfilled
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Birth Date: Humans develop naturally in 5-year cycles; experiencing the relevant life quality unconsciously, then consciously, seeking clarity towards freedom, then transforming towards the next cycle often with a health issue...
 

Relevant for the actual life phase
format: day-month-year such as
5-Nov-1944 not before 1900
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Wrong: The soul here refers to the capability to experience one's life from the basis of one's substance, indicates what is right or wrong beyond the current political correctness/mass-attractivity (OPTION I) in one's own life- through task-fulfillment (OPTION II)...
 

What percentage (1-99%) of the decisions, events and processes in this relationship go WRONG; have undesirable consequences, e.g. leading to unacceptable risks?
(99%=self-destructive relationship)
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Info: To cope with one's conscience and its 16 essential states of being and the eight dark inner evil voice seducing people under OPTION I, people seek in-form-ation, beginning with shameful fig leaves up to idols, ideologies, religions, spin, social media, reward and punishment... 

To what degree (%) do you insist on getting instructions, facts and IN-FORMATION about everything from others in the actual situation, before you take responsibility and act accordingly?
(1%=anything goes, 99%=total regulation/defaulting to norms)
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Concern: Depending on one's social conditioning and giving meaning to one's conscience and the inner voices, people develop their response-ability...

What percentage (%) of RESPONSIBILITY stems from concern for the certainty of the future of the relationship - how much do you need to be concerned with before you act?
(1%=no empathy, careless,
 99%=adequate consideration and timely exchange of competence)
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Fear: Beyond nature, people fear others, and their own limiting collective, permanently self-destructive dynamic (OPTION I). This now globalized monster PRE-TRANS-TRAPS every substance; confining what PREcedes its cult/TRAP, and even worse, what challenges it by even suggesting it can Transcend its social compatibility and political correctness! 

What percentage (%) of RESIGNATION, suppression, self-limitation, fear, arrogance, paralyses the relationship's creativity.
(1%=stress less, flow-state,
99%=totally other-determined, limiting each other)
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Integrity: We are all indirectly urged to corrupt our integrity in favor of the zeitgeist; political correctness and the intellect depend on pre-trans-trapping people. In short we are made to think we have to discipline our pre-lust and withhold our trans-essence so we fit into the prevailing trap-wordy culture, which is supposedly superior - since the collective survives the individual...
 

What percentage (%) of the personally available INTEGRITY and courage of you both have a real effect in organizing the relationship?
(1%=irresponsible, 99%=total integrity and coherence)
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Doubt: You might doubt yourself, or the world (WEF 2018: "for a common future in the disrupted world...") and thus withhold your self or neglect your worldly obligations for you cannot serve God and mammon; your conscience or the others. Whoever rules mammon, rules at the price of the soul...

What percentage (%) of DOUBT/uncertainty disrupts the relationship and the mutual trust?
(1%=clarity - certainty,
99%=uncertainty - nothing goes)
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Synergy: What stems from the your 16 essential states of your being, manifests more than the sum of their contributions for they are hold together meaningfully by your being like the body by the spine, while the eight inessential states of being in the end only manifest fragmenting self-destruction - as below in your self, so above in the collective when aroused...
 

What percentage (%) of the possible SYNERGY results in satisfying fulfillment based on trust and successful cooperation in your relationship?
(1%=power-games,
99%=LifeFulfilling Platform)
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E H/L C: Ultimately you are only free to dictate the meaning you give to OPTION I/OPTION II either with EH- or EL-Coding. However you are not free from the OPTION I consequences, or in terms of your OPTION II's life- through task-fulfillment! Then become aware which pressing, urgent and important wishes you cannot fulfill by yourself; not sufficiently easy, fast and strong enough, and or not being at ease with your system, feeling the stress of its lacking reliability. Then let us find out where their can be synergy in your self, between us and with your partner and how the relevant parameters can guide you as an i-GPS, an inner guidance of your personal system...
 

(E)xistential (H)ate/(L)ove (C)ode of the relationship, defining the attitude for H-OPTION I (self-destructive interference) / L-OPTION II (towards synergy)
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 i  Information about how to interpret the EH and the EL Codes of the specified relationship:

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HATE and LOVE based attitudes in terms of expressing ones purpose; with ELC, towards /synergy, while the EHC-attitudes lead to one-sided, short term joy which mutates into disruption:
! back to basics
a intuition/conscience
p perception
I conceptualization
h controllable living space
M sufficient maximum
X being/substance
v general self value
J self-explanation
S defocus/relax
c character profile
t thinking
b balance
f feeling the context
y non-negotiable necessary
   minimum
R (re)solution
Example: me+Swiss mentality
yt: expressing the y-minimal necessary purposeful t-thinking is a hated claim in the rather motherly Swiss mentality...
a!/S: expressing a-intuitive !-essentials leads to S-relaxing synergy...
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It is all about giving personal meaning, and about your success in relationship with it, in order to bring to attention how you want to be noticed, understood and acted upon, and visa versa, about how you deal with the feedback, of others, EH- or EL-Coded...

 

01.01.01: World-wide EL-C relationships are now possible after the 1st year of disruption!

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